u/KIBICHO_

I finally figured out why I can't stay in a relationship, and honestly it's kind of messed up

So I've been thinking about this for a while and I need to get it off my chest.

I've dated a decent number of girls and there's been this pattern I couldn't explain for the longest time. The moment a girl actually likes me back like fully accepts me I just lose interest. Completely. It's like a switch flips.

But when she's distant? When I don't know where I stand? I'm obsessed. I'll text first every time, plan everything, put in maximum effort.

The second she's "mine"? Gone. Emotionally checked out before it even starts.

I looked it up and apparently this is called "avoidant attachment" and the chase being the whole point is more common than I thought but knowing that doesn't make me feel better about the trail of confused girls I've left behind who did nothing wrong except like me back.

Has anyone actually fixed this in themselves? Because I don't want to keep doing this to people. It's not fair to them and honestly it's getting lonely.

The period when PLO Lumumba was leading the Ethics and Anti Corruption Commission felt like something out of a political line, with his speeches and bold moves against high ranking officials raising public hope that corruption might finally be end, but as soon as investigations began touching powerful figures, internal conflicts, missing files, and political pressure started surfacing, eventually leading to his suspension in 2011 over allegations of misconduct that many believed were politically motivated, and although he was later cleared, the momentum had already faded, leaving Kenyans divided on whether he was a genuine reformer who challenged the system or simply another figure who couldn’t overcome the deep rooted forces protecting corruption. There was a case where he found a gun at his drawer and he never owned one. Mps pushed for his removal after he was over the a** of a particular mp who is now one of the female governors. Do you think Lumumba could have done a good job or was he just a coward?

Hear me out, because I've been connecting some dots and this is either galaxy brained or obvious in hindsight.

First — he backdoor play.

What if Ruto doesn't even try to win 2027 outright? What if the real move is getting into the next administration through the back door — backing the right candidate, funding their campaign, and walking away with influence regardless of who wins?

Think about it. The man has accumulated serious assets at this point. We're talking Kenyatta level economic power. And as we all know, Kenya's elite class doesn't lose elections they fund them. Whoever sits at State House still has to answer to the money behind the throne.

Second the Gachagua reunion nobody wants to talk about.

Don't rule it out. Politics in Kenya has no permanent enemies. The falling out was loud and messy but these things have a way of resolving quietly when both sides need each other. Add the coastal bloc into that equation and suddenly you have a coalition that makes sense on paper.

Third the Oburu strategy isn't working.

It's just not. And I think Ruto knows it. The optics are off and the public isn't buying it.

So my prediction,Between now and 2027 watch for Ruto quietly positioning himself behind a "favourite" candidate. If the gamble pays off, he wins without being on the ballot. If it doesn't, he still has the money and the assets to stay relevant.

The game is about to unfold. Screenshot this.