u/Just_Buffalo_9675

36 year old female in a relationship for 15 years. For the past two years I’ve been flirting with my work partner and actually really like him. I’ve sent him some non-nude photos of myself and that’s a boundary I shouldn’t have crossed but he did kind of request them. He is married and I am engaged. I can’t help but like this guy even though I don’t think it would ever work. My fiancé caught me in some ways and we have had a falling out and it’s put a strain on our relationship. He hasn’t gotten over the issue even though nothing physical ever happened between us. Me and my fiancé have a bad sex life and I’m not sure I want that for the rest of my life. I also don’t want to break up a marriage and have sex with this guy but I can’t help but want to. We both talk about how unhappy we are but it would be a major problem for both of our jobs. Not sure what to do