u/Jay-Tripper

I can make friends relatively easy despite being autistic and therefore socially awkward as hell and coming across as a bit aloof sometimes, most people seem to find it endearing, I guess. So people like me as a person, but despite all that I still feel different no matter what...

In a way it's sorta patronising sometimes, but also not? It's not like they're treating me like a literal child, but I am still treated a little different than others. I like who I am, and I like being the strange nerdy autistic guy, I guess lol. I just always feel a little alienated even if I'm appreciated.

I see my friends talking together, and it's like they're all closer, like they understand eachother. But with me It's almost like people sorta characterise me in a way? I try to show more serious sides of myself, but to no avail. It's like people don't trust me with serious stuff? Mind you I'm not acting goofy or "quirky" 24/7, so it's not that. Idk, it's just annoying how no matter what I do I always feel different...

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u/Jay-Tripper — 13 days ago

I'd consider myself average intelligence I guess. I am usually a problem solver, I can think out of the box and use resources around me to solve a problem, when I did an escape room I was great at them. However when it comes to maths I'm absolutely braindead...

I'm talking basic addition sometimes, and multiplication and subtraction especially. My four year old cousin is better at maths than me, seriously. I was genuinely stuck on 14 + 7 for around 4 seconds the other day...

I've tried to get better at maths for a solid 12 years now, since I realised I was laughably bad at it, and I've gotten nowhere. I am genuinely so braindead when it comes to maths that other people think I'm stupid overall, and that hurts but I can't really blame them to be honest...

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u/Jay-Tripper — 17 days ago