u/Javi87452

so this post is honestly just looking for advice. My wife is a C2 quadriplegic and both of us are honestly looking for tips on how to have enjoyable sex. We do so love each other and I am her primary dragonet, but our sex life has been so interrupted by her SCI. I am still completely attracted to her and want to have sex more often, but vaginal penetration is often uncomfortable for her due to nerve pain. anyone have any recommendations? I we are both on here so nothing will offend us. In the two years we have had sex but not as often as we would like. Mostly we just try to get intimate by laying with each other and me kissing her neck etc. But we havent found reliable ways for her to achieve the O and for I to really enjoy penetrative sex. Whatever advice is appreciated