u/ItsTokay

I have played in many games with lots of people, even friends, family, and classmates in attendance. At times I struggle with my confidence, but for the most part I am able to hold my ground and stay confident, even in big games. Often I even go beyond and express emotions on the court that I often wouldn’t outside of basketball.

But when it comes to giving an in class presentation or even contributing to a group discussion, I begin feeling nerves. I know it’s hard to control how you feel, but it often takes away from my ability to even try and control looking or sounding good.

How come I’m able to be so confident in basketball (where there are higher stakes), but not in speaking?