Pam Should've Haunted the Narrative
As the title suggests. Pam wasn't nearly talked about enough in the series. In the first two seasons sure, because her death was still fresh. But, it feels like they forgot about her unless it's convenient to the plot, like Stephanie dreading the honeybee sleepover, DJ worried about Kimmy driving drunk, and Michelle wishing she had a mother.
Pam should've bene in way more conversations, like when Danny gets engaged to Vicky, Jesse gets married and has the twins, and especially when Stephanie goes on that wild joy ride with Gia. We don't know yet (until the next episode with the frat party) that she died because of a drunk driver, but we do know she died in a car accident. It would've been the perfect opportunity for DJ to talk about why she was being so protective.
The Papouli thing still bugs me. He was Pam's grandfather, too. He becomes very close to Michelle, and yet, never comments on her mother? No wonder Michelle can't remember anything about Pam; they barely took the time to talk to her.
I also just wanted little moments. Like Jesse talking to Becky about her. In Fuller House, they name their adopted baby after Pam, and we're supposed to fill in the gaps. I'm not saying it had to be deeply moving; just him telling Becky about his sister. Or even Jesse reflecting on Pam when inheriting the Smash Club, which was obviously a huge place for his musical journey.
Also what was Kimmy's relationship to Pam? Did she think of her as pest, or did she make Kimmy feel loved and welcomed?
Anyway, given the premise of the series, it really made no sense for Pam not to be mentioned more.