Venting
I was at the Montreal concert May 1st, awesome show. No one did anything stupid that I'm aware of, bonus! That said, something's been hanging over me ever since and I need to vent.
Someone got my attention as Archspire's set ended to try to tell me something, but I still had earplugs in for a couple seconds. Didn't take long to get one out, but I was still too late and now I don't know what they wanted to say. My spectrum-inflicted social skills are extremely lacking so I didn't make a big enough effort to ask at the time. A week and change later, I see I completely dropped the ball, and can't help but wonder what this could have been about.
Sorry to add my personal dilemma to the speedy tech death metal band's subreddit. Wasn't sure where else I could go with this. I don't need help or anything; it just takes extra time for me to move on from some things. Airing this out just felt like a necessary part of that process.