I have a good friend when we used to live back in another country we were neighbors and became like sisters. I moved back to americs and ended up getting married and having a baby - over time she has kind of isolated herwelf. A bit but she’s very busy with her work and business and her own life traveling.
Anyways - she has had a fall out with most of our old friend group. she’s just kind of has. Short temper but she’s also been so sweet and kind and loving and supportive to me - traveled to help me take care of my baby and everything. But she’s also VERY private and defensive and lately it’s gotten so bad she stopped sharing her location with me and doesn’t really share much of her personal life happenings with me.
she has gotten closer with someone she kind of puts on a pedestal and im Wondering if something in that friendship makes her less interested in ours or she is expecting me to. So her what’s going on.
she struggles a lot a lot with vulnerability and she knows it but I’m seriously sooooo scared to al her if I did something or how she feels about our friendship because im afraid of her rejecting me nd it making my post partum depression worse. I don’t have the same thick skin I used too… I’m in a pretty vulnerable place in this last year.
how would you ask someone what’s up ? Should I just call her…