Guys is it just me that hates those who always ask for help. And by that I mean those who can absolutely do it on their own but they still ask cuz they know u can't or u won't say no. (Not those who are genuinely needing help). Okay fine I understand I should be the one having boundaries. But like she knows that she is using me and still continues without a shame. she had once even said "oh I am making you do a lot of work" only to ask me to do something else minutes after. Me being a people pleaser it's hard for me to say no. But it's even harder and exhausting to be friends with that kind of a person. What do you think? Is it me being sensitive or is it actually annoying?
u/InternalEvening9830 — 14 days ago