Have you ever hated your uMembeso Dress?
Hi anyone, so the story is that I’m getting married in 2weeks time. Well actually uMembeso. My in-laws got a dress made for me of which I sent the seamstress pictures of inspirations of what I’d like and that lady did absolutely the wrong things and I hate the front of my dress, I can’t change it because the fit is fine and the seamstress is all the way in KZN. This is the dress I’ll be chilling with for most of the day and I can’t believe over 300 people will be seeing me in this. I hate it and I’m more so anxious that everyone around me will have a much more beautiful dress than me the bride, omg just thinking about it, makes me regret everything. Ohh I hate myself for the decisions I made too. I somewhat felt rush, but also the jealousy of seeing what others will be wearing is getting to me and not being able to change my dress irritates me. I’m tired of complaining to my fiancé because he said there’s nothing we can do, his parents won’t be able to get the dress and take it to the seamstress to get it fixed, so I’m stuck with this and every time I bring it up, it’s alluded that I’m being ungrateful so for a brief moment I just gave up and sucked it up that you know what my in-laws are getting this for me so that’s what matters. But my brain won’t let go of the fact that this is the best I could choose and this is the best the seamstress can do and omg knowing that this what people will perceive of me is what’s killing me. What can I do and has anyone ever experienced this?