u/Interesting-Roll-594

Honestly, I feel really torn right now. I’ve already had two labiaplasty surgeries using the wedge technique, even though that wasn’t really what I wanted from the start. After the first one, I got a hole on one side and barely saw any change in size, so I went back for a revision.

After the second surgery, I still don’t feel good about the result. It still feels too big and a bit uneven. I honestly really hate how it looks and I’ve been feeling pretty mentally affected by it. I struggle a lot when I see it, and I keep thinking I’ll never feel comfortable or confident enough to be intimate or show myself to anyone.

Now I’ve ended up with another hole on the same side again, so that needs to be fixed. That means another wedge on that side, which I’m not really happy about, but it has to be done. I would’ve preferred a trim instead, to reduce more overall and improve the look and texture.

I’ve booked a third surgery with a new clinic. They will fix the labia with the hole using the wedge technique since it’s the only way to reach it properly because a trim wouldn’t go deep enough. For the other labia, they don’t think a reduction is really necessary, but if I truly want it, they can do a trim. However, they won’t use a wedge there because the risks are considered too high given my previous experiences

But I’m still really unsure about everything. I’m worried it’ll look weird if different techniques are used on each side, and I still don’t feel happy with the overall result.

They also mentioned possibly removing a bit near the clitoris on one side, but I’m not sure about that either.

I just feel really overwhelmed and stuck with what the right decision is, and I needed to get it out of my head

I feel completely exhausted and honestly pretty heartbroken over all of this. I feel really bad about how my genital area looks, I hate looking at it, and I feel very alone in this situation.

I’ve had two labiaplasty surgeries and I’m about to go through a third. The first one was around seven months ago using the wedge technique, even though it wasn’t really what I wanted. It didn’t turn out well at all I could barely see any difference, I still had physical discomfort, and I wasn’t happy with how it looked. And on top of that, I ended up with a large hole in one of the labia that didn’t heal.

About four months later, I had another surgery to fix the hole and remove a bit more tissue. But I’m still not happy. It still feels saggy and uneven, and the parts I wanted gone from the beginning , the darker, wrinkled areas are still there. And now I’ve gotten another hole in the same place again.

I’ve now contacted another clinic. They want to do another wedge to fix the hole, and at the same time they can do a small lift around the clitoral area on that side. On the other side, they can do a trim if I want. But honestly, I really wish I could just do a trim on both sides so everything looks more even and I can finally get rid of what bothers me the most.

I just feel really torn and confused. I’m scared it’s going to look weird if they use different techniques on each side. And it doesn’t help that the surgeon said my case is unusual… that just makes me more anxious.

The surgery is already booked and paid for, but I can still decide on the day what exactly to do. I just feel stuck and don’t know what the right choice is.

HELP ME

I feel extremely depressed