Virgo female with Aquarian male, he was been doing the push and pull for over a month, yesterday I finally sat him down and asked him questions as to why he pulled away and is no longer interested .im a Virgo so I had to rehearse and write down what I wanted answers too. I made sure to just give him 2 options to each question that way I understood correctly but I left more confused mind you this happened yesterday afternoon and today he walks in saying good morning, making sure he walks by where I can see him taking business phone calls in front of my desk, making sure I hear him letting another coworker know his schedule, and the times he will be in office or where he will specifically be at certain times, like wtf do you want from me…… he stands in our hr girls office whom is facing the back of my desk and will intentionally stand where I am in direct view she has even expressed this to me that she notices he always does this and goes in her office to ask random questions like real dumb questions just too look at me, and he did this all morning. I don’t know if I’m over thinking or if I’m going delusional
See what I the conversation was below,
🩷I’m trying to detach fully from you from whatever this is but I keep hitting these road blocks of where I need answers too because I just keep overthinking it and it resets me back at the beginning.
Just answer me with 1 or 2. That way it’s clear to me.
When we started talking all this I wana fuck you like this like that get hotel rooms etc and the I think I won the lottery with you 1- did u mean it 2- where you bullshitting ❣️ he said he just said it❣️
When I quit , you found the time on a weekend which by the way was one of our rules to no texting outside of office hours and you where non stop texting you where invested in finding out what happened at my dinner with our boss or what my final decision was (my boss didn’t want me to leave) that you where non stop texting, like how you where saying that you would miss me so much that it would be harder to see me but not impossible and that out of everyone in the office you where the one that would miss me the most and the office would loose a good employee.
1 - did you really care cuz u had some feelings going 2- or where you just bullshitting me too then
❣️he said he didn’t recall saying those things to me❣️
I understand that I over stepped this whole thing I let my feelings get the best of me but I cared. Did that scare you off? 1- Or did you simply not like being intimate with me? 2-Or did you catch a feeling and pulled back ❣️ he said no that I didn’t scare him off, that he just didn’t want to do this anymore, and that’s all he kept repeating, but I know that’s a lie I can sense him holding back what he truly wanted to say❣️
So I ended it with we are DONE, I will not be doing this friendship either we will solely be coworkers and keep it work related, and that’s when his whole face changed his demeanor changed I truly think he wasn’t expecting me to say that, since I’ve always been available to him. And well y’all read the rest of how today has been going. And yes we are having an affair I don’t need the comments bashing me, you don’t know the true length of either one of ours relationships and if/why we can’t leave the marriage. I just want guidance in trying to understand him, and get closure to move on. Or is this another one of his bullshitting and he will make his round again and come back to look for me