hi, i applied for a job as a kitchen admin a while ago back in dec 2025. got hired in january and worked there til now. in the job advertisement, it said training was provided but yet noone actually taught me anything except for my manager. my manager taught me some basics but thats all that was. my co-workers are mostly indonesian, only 20% were malay. the guy that is in the same district as me has given me a hard time in this workplace. he did everything on his own, no communication, no tips and tricks, no nothing. all he did was do all the job by himself and expects me to know everything the moment i walked in. he complained about me multiple times to my managers and other head leaders saying how i was slow and unable to keep up. mind you, this is my first job and i have received no training. months passed by and i learned to do stuffs on my own by memorizing and observing what he did on a daily basis. still he never communicated with me til today.
he did all the tasks by himself, all on his own. which makes my other coworkers see me as useless and lazy even when I'm just trying my best to even keep up. i've been scolded multiple times saying how i'm slacking off but what am i genuinely meant to do when this guy keeps doing things on his own and insists on doing it by himself? he makes himself look good while pushing my image down and on top of that complains to people about me.
today i couldn't take it anymore and i cried to one of my leaders about this. i never told anyone about him and how it made me feel. how little i felt when everyone viewed me as useless and lazy. i called my boyfriend immediately after my shift ended because i just needed some comfort after the storm. he told me to quit since the guy that im working with has did me wrong so many times. but i like my job, i never found it too difficult and i love my other coworkers. i feel like quitting by the end of this month and i'm conflicted about my decision.