preferably picturesque,
the context is that we just found out that one of our children my pregnant gf is carrying is no longer viable due to anencephaly, and she would like to name her Willow. So I was thinking of taking a picture of a nice willow tree thank you
context: Basically, me and my girlfriend who don't live together are having an unplanned pregnancy (twins, 12 weeks). She has always had issues emotionally, and with the pregnancy has had to stop taking a lot of her medications. I think this coupled with the hormones has affected her greatly. Anyways, we mutually decided that we need to take a break. This apparently was not something I was supposed to agree with her on because it caused her to fly into rage and drive home in the middle of the night. The next day she txt's me that she intends to leave me off the birth certificate.
I need to know what this means for me, for her and for our children. Should I be worried that she intends to remove my rights as a father? it's very important that I be there for my children and have an equal presence in their life as she does.
What sort of process will I have to go through, how much time and money, to be legally recognized as the father of my children? She's under the impression that it's no big deal and will make things easier early on for her and the babies and I don't really know what that means.
I'm so distraught over this, she has calmed down some over the past few days and I believe she's only threatening me with this if we aren't back together by the time the babies arrive.
Although I do maintain hope that we eventually decide to continue our relationship after she's in a more stable place, how worried should I be?