I’m 25 and 18 weeks pregnant I’m happy about it at the time when I got pregnant I wasn’t with the baby’s father he is 32 ( we were together for 6 years but broke up ) .
we are back together and sneaking around because I’m living with my parents and my parents hate him like can’t stand the thought of him they believe we no longer talk they know he is the baby fathers and my mom took the new hard she was very angry and stopped talking to me even though we live under he same roof she just recently started talking to me again ( there’s many different reasons there was a time we both were addicted didn’t have jobs did a lot of dumb things in our addiction we were homeless ass well and he was abusive) ,
we both are in recovery we both have jobs he has a place for us to live he wants me to move in already he wants to step up as a partner but I don’t know how to tell my parents we want to make it work again that I want to move out and go live with him . I’m just scared for them to be so angry they don’t want to speak to me again , I know they believe he is a no good man and he would never change his ways but I wish they can see the huge change he has done all the stuff he has done to prove to me he can take care of me and our child not just financially but emotionally spiritually. I want to wait till after my 20 week anatomy scan to tell them but how do I approach the situation with them understand
( my dad is usually super patient and understanding he hates him but my dad always lets me finish speaking before him expressing himself my mom on the other hand is a hot head she hears something that doesn’t please her she starts yelling being disrespectful and rude talks over you dosnt care to listen after she gets mad )