u/Important-Deal-750

He left me for dead. Well, not literally, but in the figurative sense. Quick backstory: I took a year off of dating after finalizing my divorce as I found I was attracting all of the wrong type of men (handsome but toxic men). During this period instead of really focusing on healing, I fell head over heels for someone and I genuinely felt as if I had found my twin flame. Sigh. I know. At any rate, this is my first time experiencing these feelings for someone who hardly acknowledges me, but I really felt at one point that the attraction was mutual. To my surprise, during an extended period away the only time he checked in on me was to ask me if had watered his plants. (Insert Kim K crying face) So that was my wake up call. Since I’ve been on a spiral all week, I turned down a date to a live music event (which I probably would’ve had so much fun at) and I’ve been ignoring my phone. I thought I was over this, but we’ll see how low contact goes. No contact was clearly a bust.

Hey you,

This won’t be as polished as my other letters. This will; however, be more succinct. I needed the wake up call and I respect your boundaries. I misread the situation and took it further in my own mind than it ever was in reality.

Apologies. All the best.

With respect,

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