should I ghost my bffs of 10 years
I've been best friends with these two girls for like 10 years, we are all in our mid 20's. Everything has been good up until this past year or so when I started noticing they tend to exclude me on a lot of things... for example, if they are going to do something fun near where I live, they wont call me to invite me until the very last second even though they are already together, actively doing the fun thing.
We had all been in the same group chat for years so we can ask each other to play games together and just chat. Well, they made a whole separate group chat with EVERYONE that was in the first one, except me. When I asked them why, they just told me they thought I was already in the new one. The group chat had been up for months by the time I was invited.
The final thing thats really making me consider my friendship with them is that one of them is getting married and has made the other one her maid of honor. I know they are both closer to each other than to me, so I have no problem with that at all, but the friend getting married didn't ask me to be a bridesmaid for her or even mention a reason why I won't be... I know the wedding is not about me in any way, shape, or form, but I must stress that we have all been a close trio of best friends for literally 10 years so for her to make our other friend her maid of honor and just completely leave me out just feels really weird and... super unexpected?
I guess I'm just being hit with the realization that maybe they are my best friends, and I am not theirs. It's a really disappointing and sad feeling and even though we've been friends for so long my feelings are so hurt by the combination of things that have happened over the past year or so that I kinda just want to ghost them and focus on other friendships more. Of course this isn't all the details or else this post would be way too long, but am I overreacting?