u/IhavemyCat

We see Cortney and Phil tell Colt to get the hell out of dodge, and Cortney says this is it, after this, I have to cut communication with you so I can focus on my relationship with Phil. During BTS, Sophie asks Cortney point-blank," Did you really cut off Colt?" and Cort said "Yes! I did....buuut then a month later Phil and I had a big fight, and I unblocked Colt and we were just friends and I told him to break up with Diana cause he was whining that he was miserable and so me and Elise told him to come for my birthday, I invited everyone from Hunt for Love and we were scared Diana was going to euthanize Colt because she was a veterinarian"

Colt alleges that Cortney never cut him off, and she always stayed in touch with him at least once a week and then some. Then he says she asked him and him only to come for her birthday - him and not everyone else- there was no group chat, to go to Mexico, and she emailed hotels to get deals, and says we can travel, etc. Colt says he told her, "No, I'm staying in Brazil with Diana," and that is when Cortney blocked him for "realsies."

The next thing Colt says is well, it's not really an allegation, so much as an opinion, but he says he was sad that Phil and Cortney were engaged simply because he doesn't think they are a good couple. He said Cortney is deathly afraid of losing her parents. When he said that, I could totally relate. I felt for her in that regard. But then he said that the fear of losing them stemmed from the fact that she would have no one to help her. lol. To take care of her financially anymore. (My reason is that I would miss them, lol) So he feels she ran to Phil, so she has someone to fill that void once her parents are gone. She doesn't want the worry of taking care of herself.

So do you think these things are true? Colt is a leech, a lush, a jackass, and much more, but I can see some truth to these things. I don't know. I dislike judging or saying things are true in a definite, we can only speculate. But this is the 90 Day Reddit after all. They put themselves on TV, we come here and talk about it and dissect it.

You want to make out with people because you are drunk- Quit Drinking

I'm not sure I would want her taking care of my cat. (She was a pet sitter abroad for boarding) I hate to be discriminatory, but she has admitted to so many instances of forgetfulness and her Ho phase, lol - I just imagine her getting drunk, bringing strangers back to my pad to get it on, and my poor kitty watching.

I already have a feeling Catie is using her OCD as an excuse for her behaviors, so Josh doesn't get as upset with her. I was diagnosed with OCD, and it was painful because there were things I could not help- at first. I couldn't even think of dating while I was figuring out how to navigate my life with the diagnosis in a way I could live out in the wild. I quit drinking because alcohol exacerbates OCD symptoms. I went into deep therapy and went on meds. And I didn't quit until I found the correct recovery system that worked.

Not everyone has to go this route. But she seems like she has no desire to try to quit drinking- the thing that causes her to do bad and make out with everyone. The thing that breaks their relationship. She WANTS the make-outs. Does she want it MORE than the relationship? Move on, Josh. She's not ready.