I’m just so sad. I’ll admit I’m ADHD and have some super annoying things about me. I help clean but I ca be messy so things aren’t clean right away. I don’t always remember things I’m supposed to. I’m kind though, I take time to work on things that hard for me. After 8 years together she wants a divorce. I’m just so so sad. Our 8th anniversary is next week.
I’ve known she’s been done for awhile. Doesn’t matter what I do there’s been emotional abuse from her pretty consistently. I pushed through for the kiddo and genuinely believed we could get through the growing pains. Just never could meet the mark. I’ve put myself in a terrible financial situation to appease her and now I’m looking down the barrel of messy divorce that will wipe out most of what we built with turning 40 just around the corner.
I am just so so sad. Why can’t someone who is trying hard, committed and willing to work on things not be enough?