u/Icy-Measurement8888

"Niku enduku pani pata leni vadivi" — When your own family stops caring.

Hi guys, oka personal thing share chesukovali and psychological ga deeni meaning ento ardam kavatledu.

Recently maa family Bhadrachalam trip ki vellaru. Naku asalu plan chesina vishayam kuda telidu, velle mundu roju "Ready avvu" ani chepparu. Nenu "Naku pani undi, startup and freelancing work undi" ani skip chesha. Endukante current ga business lo income em ledu, so nenu full focus ga grind chesthunna.

Vallu moham mide anesharu: "Ni varaku sampadana kuda ledu, nuvvu vachina rakapoyina okate maku" ani. Sare ani nenu vellaledu. Return vachaka kanisam "Thinnava?" ani kuda adagaledu, job ledu ani thiduthune unnaru. Ivala bayataki velli vacha, "Prasadam undi annaru ga evandi" ante, "Ledu finish chesesam, niku enduku pani pata leni vadivi" ani anesaru.

Shocking vishayam entante... naku asalu em anipinchatledu. Kopam ravatledu, bada ledu, frustration ledu. Just vinnanu, "Okay" anukunnanu, anthe.

Usually ilantappudu evaraina hurt avtharu or thidatharu. But naku asalu elanti emotion ravatledu. I’m confused... is this some kind of emotional numbness?

Meelo evaraina ilanti phase face cheshara? Career struggle lo unnappudu family nundi ilanti treatment vachina feeling rakapovadam normal eh na?

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u/Icy-Measurement8888 — 2 days ago

"Niku enduku pani pata leni vadivi" — When your own family stops caring.

Hi guys, oka personal thing share chesukovali and psychological ga deeni meaning ento ardam kavatledu.

Recently maa family Bhadrachalam trip ki vellaru. Naku asalu plan chesina vishayam kuda telidu, velle mundu roju "Ready avvu" ani chepparu. Nenu "Naku pani undi, startup and freelancing work undi" ani skip chesha. Endukante current ga business lo income em ledu, so nenu full focus ga grind chesthunna.

Vallu moham mide anesharu: "Ni varaku sampadana kuda ledu, nuvvu vachina rakapoyina okate maku" ani. Sare ani nenu vellaledu. Return vachaka kanisam "Thinnava?" ani kuda adagaledu, job ledu ani thiduthune unnaru. Ivala bayataki velli vacha, "Prasadam undi annaru ga evandi" ante, "Ledu finish chesesam, niku enduku pani pata leni vadivi" ani anesaru.

Shocking vishayam entante... naku asalu em anipinchatledu. Kopam ravatledu, bada ledu, frustration ledu. Just vinnanu, "Okay" anukunnanu, anthe.

Usually ilantappudu evaraina hurt avtharu or thidatharu. But naku asalu elanti emotion ravatledu. I’m confused... is this some kind of emotional numbness?

Meelo evaraina ilanti phase face cheshara? Career struggle lo unnappudu family nundi ilanti treatment vachina feeling rakapovadam normal eh na?

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u/Icy-Measurement8888 — 2 days ago

Young entrepreneur in our city thinks Ads are scams but wants me to do his sales meetings.

Hi guys, eroje oka interesting meeting ayindi with a high profile young entrepreneur in our city. Ayanaki budget undi and already oka marketing team kuda undi but his logic is just blowing my mind. I explained a complete organic growth strategy and ads for conversion but ayana expectations chala weird ga unnayi.

First vachesi he strictly said that Google and Meta ads are just like buying bot views and andulo em output undadu ani. Ayanaki only monthly 15 influencer collaborations matrame kavali and adokkate organic growth ani fix ayipoyaru. All of a sudden naku offline meetings kuda kavali annaru. Every week valla business ki vache customers thoti nenu offline meetings handle cheyali anta. Nenu sir memu digital and remote work chestham offline customer meetings handle cheyam ani chepthe ayana reaction inka shocking ga undi. Marketing team ante customers tho meet avvali bro miku telida nenu chala cost peduthunna marketing ki idi kuda mire cheyali ani nannu question chesthunnaru.

Naku ardam kani vishayam entante 15 influencers thoti reels chesthe hype vasthadi okay but page lo original brand voice lekapothe long run lo adi ela survive avthadi. Plus a digital creator being asked to do weekly offline customer meets is just insane. Marketing ki and Sales or PR ki difference lekunda matladuthunnaru. Already marketing team unna kuda midi kuda oka sari try cheddam antunnaru ante he is probably looking for a jack of all trades who will also act as his personal assistant or salesman.

Deeniki nenu NO chepesthuna.

What will you say?

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u/Icy-Measurement8888 — 4 days ago

9k ki scammer ni ayipoya... thanks to "Buying Views" logic

Eroju oka mid-range business owner ki call chesa for marketing services. I explained everything—daily reels, strategy, and lead generation. Requirements vini ayana price adigaru. I gave a fair quote (mini and max range cheppa) and even mentioned that results sure ga untayi ani agreement kuda tiskuntam ani.

Ayanaki adi ekkuva anipinchindi okay, but his logic was next level:

"Naku ivanni 9,000/- lo ayipovali. 9k petti views konukkunte saripothadi ga? Meeru scam chesthunaru ani ardam ayindi."

I was literally shocked. Professionally shot content ki, lead generation ki... bot views ki difference teliyakunda scammer antunnaru. Nenu cheppina minimum package tiskunna ayana business ki peaks lo results vachivundevi.

Honestly, chala frustration vachindi. Oka vaipu kopam, inkoka vaipu pity on myself for trying to explain. Ee "vanity metrics" pichi lo padi real growth ni neglect chestunnaru mana daggara chala mandi.

Meelo evaraina freelancers/creatives unte cheppandi... how do you handle such clients in Vijayawada? Direct ga skip kotteyala leka educate cheyala?

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u/Icy-Measurement8888 — 5 days ago

9k ki scammer ni ayipoya... thanks to "Buying Views" logic!

Eroju oka mid-range business owner ki call chesa for marketing services. I explained everything—daily reels, strategy, and lead generation. Requirements vini ayana price adigaru. I gave a fair quote (mini and max range cheppa) and even mentioned that results sure ga untayi ani agreement kuda tiskuntam ani.

Ayanaki adi ekkuva anipinchindi okay, but his logic was next level:

Naku ivanni 9,000/- lo ayipovali. 9k petti views konukkunte saripothadi ga? Meeru scam chesthunaru ani ardam ayindi.

I was literally shocked. Professionally shot content ki, lead generation ki... bot views ki difference teliyakunda scammer antunnaru. Nenu cheppina minimum package tiskunna ayana business ki peaks lo results vachivundevi.

Honestly, chala frustration vachindi. Oka vaipu kopam, inkoka vaipu pity on myself for trying to explain. Ee "vanity metrics" pichi lo padi real growth ni neglect chestunnaru mana daggara chala mandi.

Meelo evaraina freelancers/creatives unte cheppandi... how do you handle such clients in Vijayawada? Direct ga skip kotteyala leka educate cheyala?

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u/Icy-Measurement8888 — 6 days ago