I think my M15 mum F36 is controlling, and I've had all my friends say that she is, but I can't seem to get this across to her.
I'm 15 years old, I have screentime on my phone, my iPad, my TV, etc. My sister (11) and brother (9) both have iPads our dad bought them (our parents are divorced for context), so they don't have screentime or app restrictions or anything.
I have all of it, 3 hours during the week, 5 hours on the weekend, and my phone instantly shuts off at 8 pm. When I told my mum this is unfair and none of my friends has it, she just goes "I bought it, it's my phone" or "I'm not their mother, am I?".
Now I'm trying to give her the benefit of the doubt because I'm her first teenager, but I don't think that's fair at all.
I get my stuff taken off me all the time if I talk back, but I can't name one time my siblings have misbehaved and had anything taken off them.
I feel like, as the oldest, I'm getting the worst of it, getting a phone at 13, whilst my sisters are getting one at 11, having restrictions while the others don't.
I've tried every possible way to explain this to her, but it just ends up in another screaming match that gets my phone taken away from me.
I don't know what to do.