Scorpio men scare me. How are we compatible?
They say pisces x scorpio is a passionate, harmonious match.
The 2-3 scorpio men I have dealt with, have been really weird, sometimes SCARY.
First off, I feel like they give such hot and cold energy. Normally, I am pursued, but by a scorpio, they pursue and fall back to see if you will chase them. That gives me the ick. When I lean in, they lean out. And when I lean out, they lean in.
They are extremely secretive while wanting to know everything about your life. I don't mind sharing things about me with someone, but they pry VERY hard to the point where sometimes it can be uncomfortable and they don't reciprocate the level of information you're giving them.
Scorpios can also be very vengeful and obsessive. Which makes for a terrifying combo. In addition to now knowing everything about you. I feel like they like being in control and that can make me uncomfortable if I dont trust the person fully yet. So in the dating/courting stages.
I might be biased because I'm a pisces/aries sun (technically 0° aries) with a lot of placements in pisces and moon in aries. So maybe my aries side feels uncomfortable by them?
Or maybe I just attract the toxic types.
I had a girl best friend who was a scorpio and she was amazing. Loyal, kind, smart, fun, great person. Also had a close guy friend (he was gay, I'm a girl) who was a scorpio and he was the best and very loyal and sweet too.
I genuinely do love scorpios and what they represent but like... am I just finding the unevolved ones?
When I ended things with one scorpio guy who was playing mind games with me constantly, I felt that I had to try to end it in a super nice way just in case, so he doesn't try to get revenge on me or stalk me or anything. I gave him money as a gift. I was very careful. I don't normally feel the need to do that with other signs.
So what's up with this... are pisces and scorpio actually a good match?
I also have a lot of planets in my 8th house so you would think we would understand each other, but I feel like they are too secretive while I am always trying to uncover the truth. So that's a weird mismatch too.