u/IceSpare3750

For the longest time I genuinely thought I just didn’t have discipline.

I’d sit down to study, get distracted, avoid it, or just give up after a bit. And even when I did study, I’d reread my notes over and over and still forget everything.

It made me feel like I just wasn’t built for it.

What I didn’t realize is that I wasn’t actually learning—I was just passively going through the material.

Once I started doing things differently, it kind of flipped:

  • testing myself instead of rereading
  • focusing on what I got wrong
  • forcing myself to explain things without looking

It was way more uncomfortable, but stuff actually started sticking.

Now even shorter study sessions feel more productive than the long ones I used to do.

Curious if anyone else went through this—what actually worked for you?

(I ended up putting together a small tool around this idea for myself too, let me know if you guys want to know what it is in the comments happy to share it)

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u/IceSpare3750 — 14 days ago

it’s not even the studying part that’s hard

it’s looking at everything i have to do and not knowing where to start

i’ll sit there thinking about studying longer than actually doing it

how do you deal with that?

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u/IceSpare3750 — 15 days ago

for the longest time i thought i had no discipline

i’d read my notes over and over and still forget everything, so i’d just avoid studying altogether

recently i realized i wasn’t actually learning anything, just rereading

once i started testing myself and going step by step, it felt completely different

curious what actually worked for you guys?

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u/IceSpare3750 — 15 days ago