u/Iam-whom-I-am

Good people , whoever said Nairobi is one big bedroom wasn't far from the truth , I am/was an amid believer of having one sexual partner at a time whether in a committal or non committal engagement where we can go and practice our deed without protection or worries of acquiring any related issues.

Few months ago I happened to meet this lady who is older than I am , and we clicked and soon enough we were candidates of bed gymnastics , we both knew and agreed there was no future ahead for us so we decided to run the tide and be a situationship until one of us gets into a relationship. In my mind I thought oldies hawananga mambo mob in terms of them having to "cheat" .

So we have been doing our thing but something inside me used not to feel uncomfortable , like I used to cut her out sometime and cut the sex part and advocate for abstinence on myself , but for some reason maybe the deed was too good and sweet and kept me wanting "one more time"

My wake up call was when one time I found out about a work field trip they went and almost got intimate with another person, I believed she may have loved him or whatever . I asked casually and she declined . Now recently I came to realise she has been having one or two more sexual patners and pale pia she is invested in the gymnastics.

The moment I saw that it was my cue to completely cut her off and out of my life , and funny thing is she also denied having other partners , I cannot compromise on my body especially Healthwise . I respect myself enough to leave , and now even more to abstain ,

Interestingly I haven't treated an STI or any infection but I am still worried on what I had exposed myself to. That will not happen again.
and if its a must ,Now I understand wrap it before you tap it .

Hello good people. We buy the experience and sometimes not the service or the product . this is one of the main insight I have received . I do now believe one of the reasons some businesses or people maintain clients is because of how they were treated or made feel, for example the positive energy you use on your customers are sometimes a great factor to their wellbeing,

I believe it is the same even in relationships, from my own experience I find thrown off if I call a friend or someone and they answer with a "yes" or "Sema "as opposed to someone giving pleasantries upon receiving my calls. Have you guys ever gone to a shop and the way the attendant handled you, you felt like you would not go there for a second time? maybe going to a shop and the attendants are so serious or even on their phones?

As someone who has been a customer to people and also a manager for my parent's business it's crucial, we work on some customer skills or relations, a simple hello and "karibu" and even a complimentary smile goes a long way. Yes, you might be having a bad day or bad moods, it human but it's good to be accommodating at least , its good for the longevity of customers , a customer well served is a refferal for onother day , whether as a mama mboga to an institution.

There is a reason they say the customer is always right , You may not agree with them but its good also not to be in arguments with them because even if you won the argument to may not have or will not convince him or her to your way of thinking and probably won't even show up again to your business , customers bring you money so treat them with good care, we need them today and we need them tomorrow.