To begin with, I DON'T think being feminine is bad, but I'm the kind of dude who prefers to appear masculine, and although I have no problem doing or using 'girly' stuff.
However, I have this tattoo that is making me feel really dysphoric. It has two blue jellyfish that look really soft and have round edges. I loved it when I first got it, but now it's making me REALLY dysphoric and just makes me want to rip it off along with my skin. Help? Any tips? Maybe anyone with tattoos that are considered 'girly' can help? Or simply say something about how 'tattoos aren't girly and even if they are there's nothing wrong with it'? I would really like to see a guy who has these kind of tattoos, maybe?
I posted in the tattoo subreddit and it just made me want to cry. My sister made it (an aspiring tattoo artist) and people just kept saying how it looked like shit and how I should get it redone. God, I know I sound like a child but I just feel worse than ever after that.
Thank you.