u/ILikeItLikeThat24

This is likely more indicative of my present mental state, because I've just lost the 2nd promising relationship that was headed towards the bedroom. I and the women I'd be interested in are too old to have had the vacinne. I've been clear for over a year.

One I voluntarily told, the other I told when questioned. I know there's no legal obligation to tell, but I get hung up on if there's a moral obligation. I struggle with that and am inclined to not tell, anymore. 🙁

I didn't tell them that many people have been exposed or try to downplay it. I encouraged them to do their own research, but the answer comes back the same: "I've never had a problem down there," despite them admitting they'd been sexually active (>10 partners).