u/ILOVEFAIRYTAIL123

Need to tell my friend I put too much energy into the friendship, with pretty much nothing back.

For the past month or so I've felt very ignored from my friend, they won't respond to my text for over 10 hours sometimes, and I know it's not because they're busy, they're just talking to these new people they met. Even this morning I had delivered text but she was online all morning on discord, then she got on the game and I shot her a message asking if I can play with her, I got nothing as she played for an hour then got off. She was active on our usual messaging app but still left my messages. I don't understand why her and I friendship has to be affected so much from her meeting new people, I don't care that she's hanging out with new people but it's like she lost all interest in talking to me. I don't know what to do

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u/ILOVEFAIRYTAIL123 — 3 days ago

Friend is almost always active but takes forever to respond to me.

My best friend is always online on discord, occasionally turns it off but every time I open discord she is on it. I don't care about that but it's the fact that she never really opens my messages anymore, this started about a month ago. She randomly started using her discord again and started playing games with this group of people. She did cancel something we were meant to do to play with them. There's also a thing now where she's been leaving me on read sometimes, like she opens my message then immediately hops back on discord (we don't text on there) Yesterday morning I had messaged her a question and she just left it on read and went back to discord, I got a message about 10 hours later. Right now I have messages waiting but she's not clicking on them, I hate how I'm reacting to this. I feel so guilty for caring this much, I don't care that she's hanging with other people but it feels our friendship has been shelved heavily. I hate how much it's hurting me, I can't stop opening the app just to see her, everytime I open the app and she's on I just can't stop thinking about how I have those messages, I'm trying so hard to ignore it but I can't. I don't know what to do.

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u/ILOVEFAIRYTAIL123 — 4 days ago