I haven't actually downloaded it yet, I want to get more info before setting up my profile and it getting out before it's ready. Can I create a profile and make it "disabled" while I browse to see what other people write before it starts showing my profile to people? I'm mostly straight, but curious about giving head and/or being bottomed, and I would return the favor if asked. I enjoy being pegged by my wife.
Should I put in my profile that I haven't been with a guy before? It seems like some guys fetishize having sex with a "straight" guy, which I'm more than ok with being objectified, I'm just looking to hookup afterall, I already have a wife who I love very much.
I live in a relatively high population area (Long Island, NY), and am pretty fit. What kind of pictures are recommended, is it more like tinder or more like FetLife (adult / nude / dick pics) as far as profile pictures go?
Should I mention that I am married? I know it varies by person, but do people generally find that to be a turn on or a turn off (my wife knows and supports me experimenting, there's no issues if they wanted to do a video call with my wife and I or whatnot to prove this)
Is it weird if my wife is in any of the pictures that I post?
Ideally I would like to find a trans girl to have fun with, but I am not opposed to it being a guy.
Are a lot of gay / bi guys attracted to cross dressers / sissys / femboys or should I stick to more masculine pics? I would prefer to wear lingerie / stockings / mini skirt, but I have a pretty long beard that I don't plan on shaving so I can't go full sissy (even though it sounds fun)
I'm mostly dominant with my wife so I am looking forward to trying a more submissive role. Do you guys list your kinks on your profile?
I was on tinder like 10 years ago and the bots were pretty rampant back then, it was pretty easy to tell bots from humans, usually by the picture, but with all the AI stuff, not sure how easy it will be these days, what are some things to look out for when determining.
What are the common pitfalls or anything else I am missing to look out for?
I started PrEP like 3 weeks ago and have DoxyPEP, and am going to get the HPV vaccine this weekend, so I should be good for almost everything except herpes. I plan on using a condom for anal atleast at first, but if they get tested, getting creampied is a big fantasy of mine.