u/Hyuna_de_heaux

If you guys saw my last post on this sub you best believe I went through hell and back. And now need desperate advice😍

TMI

So I definitely had fecal impactation but yay! I finally went after using an enema at home. This was my first and hopefully last (knock on wood) I have to go through this.

It was definitely painful and i definitely feel like I haven’t cleared my system even tho i probably have.
I’m sure nauseous and I need to know what to do so that I don’t go through this. Like what should I eat for the next few weeks to make sure my stool isn’t hard because I don’t think I can handle more pain.

I cried A LOT. Like a lot. I felt like a toddler again crying for my parents. Thankfully my mom and sister were there for me. Also I need like home remedies to um…. Help myself heal down there… ya know?….

I hope you guys don’t have to go through this ever, or ever again , I feel like a survivor after going to war with my own body.

I never thought I’d write here but. Here I am. And in desperate need.

I’m F (18), I’ve suffered through chronic constipation since I was a baby. I got better around age 6-13, until I got my period and it came back.
After a couple on and off where I would be constipated 3-5 days maybe once a month or two, but nothing too concerning. It would always leave without too much pain and my body would return back to normal.

Now after all these years boom I get constipated a week or two ago. Again. This time it would again go after 3-4 days but little painful then normal but softer than what I would be scared of.

Now look I’ve read horror story level shit here and I’m not tryna be one.

TMI from here .

I just tried to go. Like a dumbass idk.
And it got stuck. Like a little. And now I’ve realised it’s HUGE. Like idk how tf it’s gonna get out of me huge. I called my mom crying because it ain’t getting out. Somehow I’ve sat in hot water, had milk with some ghee (clarified butter for non Indians) and now hot water.

I’m feeling so uncomfortable. It HURTS down there like it’s already torn. And now I’m EVEN more scared to go.

My mom suggested we have the one laxative and use a stool softener but I still think it’s not gonna go cuz I’m scared and I know it’s gonna hurt and I’m scared.

I just wanna know how you guys deal with this and what I can do cuz I’m so scared.

Edit: I have not slept all night because I can feel it bothering me and hurting me. This morning I woke up but the laxative hasn’t really done anything and I’ve been drinking A LOT of water but no luck in feeling pressure.