u/HumorFluid8376

Hi, so I’ve had somewhat of a talking stage, but it wasn’t really well to me in the beginning he was just a friend, and he did have feelings for me. I knew since he’d mention it to my friend and then she’d tell me. After some time talking, I did develop feelings, but I didn’t want a relationship since we only developed a friendship online, and in person I’d see him, and he ignored me. So I ended up ghosting him, since I didn’t see it going anywhere… later on I got in a relationship, we dated for about a few months but recently broke up, and throughout where I worked the guy id used to talk to pops up, I’ve had 4 jobs and he popped up to three, the first job he had a friend that worked there, so I just thought that was fine, but the other two jobs he didn’t have a friend working there, and I know since I’d check if he had friends working there through his following list, and at the 2nd job he’d pop up multiple times with his friends, and I could tell he was staring at me, and when I’d leave my closing shift at 10 pm, I’d always see this black car near me, and he had a black car idk how exactly his black car looked, but he had one. At my third I had seen him again- where I am currently working. I don’t know why I keep obsessing over this, I do obsess and overthink about these things a lot, but I had saw his Pinterest since through our talking stage he had downloaded it for me, so I checked it yesterday - and he had saved something I recently saved, it was a cute drawing of snoopy , but today I saw he deleted it… like if he knows I had seen it - idk I feel like I’m being seen through my phone but I’m obviously not and I’d check his repost and a couple of them was some edits of relationships in movies that I’d send him, but that was back in September, but a couple days ago he reposted a Dexter and Rita edit a day later after I reposted one, and after I removed it, he removed it I know it might seem childish, but thinking if this is coincidence or not.