u/Humcamstel

Spent a year working on myself for someone who decided in the end we couldn't make things work again (justifiably), now seeking a new primary partner to explore and share everything with.

I love to travel, I'm UK based but have been working towards relocating to the Netherlands for the last couple of years. Very much looking for someone who enjoys exploring new places and cultures, the last decade I've almost exclusively been travelling between the UK and NL when I can afford it, looking forward to exploring a lot more of North Europe when it's on my doorstep. I've been learning Dutch for a year or so slowly, used to be fluent in Spanish too but it's been a long time since I used it.

Shared beliefs are motivations tend to be what really attracts me to people romantically. I used to be a very active activist, I care a lot about politics and making the world better for everyone, I'm a vegan, I'm an anarchist, you don't need to share these values but an interest and a drive to make things better definitely is a big thing for me.

I'm neurodivergent, ADHD and almost definitely autistic, and I probably have BPD but undiagnosed. I was doing better with it before the last relationship ended, but have been working on it a lot and am mostly back on top.

Sexually I'm very kinky but don't need a partner who also is, always nice though. I switch with a slight dom preference.

For fun I play games (OSRS, paradox games and space indies have been most of the last few years gametime), I take long baths in which I like to read, I smoke devils lettuce on occasion (most evenings honestly), I hang out with my cat, I develop wierd new niche special interests that last for a week. Recently I played Jet Lag Hide and Seek the home game for the first time in London, had a lot of fun can imagine it being a new hobby.

Hey allemaal,

I'm looking for anyone at any level to practice speaking with for 15-20 mins a day, just a regular conversation we can hold each other accountable for regular practice wise and a chance to practice our terrible Dutch on each other without judgement.

I've completed the Duo course, just started on Bussu, I watch a bit of Dutch TV and listen to a it of Doe Maar, my vocab is pretty okay but struggle a lot with sentence formation and grammar rules. Realised while over in AMS last week I lack the confidence to reply in Dutch, even when people are speaking to me in complex sentences and I completely understand I freeze up trying to reply, despite understanding and knowing all the words I need to at least be understood.

If anyones interested, please reach out.