6 years into the relationship and the bedroom is giving… nothing
Not sure if this is the right sub, but I’ve been feeling pretty sexually frustrated lately and I don’t really know how to deal with it.
For context, I’m bi: my girlfriend (33) and I (28) have been together for almost 6 years.
I have a higher sex drive and I’m almost always the one initiating sex. There are also a lot of times she turns me down, especially when she’s not in the mood. I’ve brought this up with her in the past, and while things improved a bit, it now feels like she’s mostly just not saying no rather than actually being more engaged.
Recently, we’ve been having sex maybe once a week at best, but more often it’s closer to once every two weeks. I can’t help but feel frustrated, especially when I read posts on reddit and realize how different other people’s sex lives can be.
I love her, but I also don’t want to just keep swallowing this frustration either. There are moments talaga na naiisip ko na I know I could get it elsewhere if I really wanted to