u/Hour_Cat8801

I’m new to this and seeking guidance and how to handle this situation. I met up with a friend last September just to catch up. She was dealing with a lot of issues that I had also gone through. Afterwards, we pretty much started hanging out every weekend and my off days. Somewhere along the way I started to develop feelings for her. That was not my intention. Things seemed to be pointing that way up until a few weeks ago where it seemed like she didn’t want to go out anymore at night and she started to hang out with someone or a group of people when she was not with me. We have grown a distant. Now, I don’t know if I should tell her how I feel or if I should walk away? Was my intuition wrong and I was getting the wrong signals or did I miss my chance?

For years I’ve had a dream about a particular house. I can’t really describe the house but it’s always the same. From what I can remember there is a long stair case to get to the front door. Once inside, to the left of the entrance is a kitchen with 2 refrigerators. To the left of the entrance is the living room. There is a hallway between the kitchen and living room that leads to the other rooms that I’ve never been to and at the end is a stair case that leads to a second level with one bedroom. There is a second hallway in the middle of the living room that leads to my older sister’s part of the house that I haven’t explored since she is married and is private. I’ve had dreams where the house is sometimes empty with no furniture. Other times the house does have furniture but no one is there when I enter. Everyone in my family seems to have a room in the house but me. There was one dream where I asked to have the bottom bedroom and was told I couldn’t even though there was plenty of space. I didn’t get mad when I was denied but when I woke up it did bother me. Another dream was me walking up the stairs and finding the house deserted and pretty much left for me. Not sure what this house is trying to tell me. I’ve heard that it could mean that I feel left out, which I do at times. It could also mean that I’m feeling stagnant and the need to be on my own? Any opinions would help.