u/Hot_Statistician921

Sana napanood to nung mga mahilig mag-label sa atin na

"ill-bred" or lazily looking for shortcuts

Today's oathtaking speech by Dr. Parchaso (Top 1) is the ultimate slap in the face to the narrative na pag bumagsak ka, it's because you didn't have "fortitude" or because you didn't follow a "prescribed OC schedule".

Yes. Ultimate slap!

Sabi ni Doktora last time, failure is almost a character flaw.

Pero si Dr. Parchaso? He failed because LIFE HAPPENED!.

Unplanned pregnancy, the weight of being a new father, and the struggle of choosing family over a board exam. He didn't fail because he wasn't "smart enough" or "well-bred" enough. He failed because he's HUMAN. (And same goes to the other retakers who were mocked by the elitists). Redemption isn't a straight line, and it certainly doesn't follow a "Main Pathway."

Dr. Parchaso showed us today na hindi mo kailangan ng “Etiquette Lessons" or "Plushies" para maging magaling na doctor. You need heart, resilience, and the humility to admit na life is messy.

To doktora, success isn't reserved for the "well-bred" who can afford to study 24/7 without responsibilities. It's for the retakers, the parents, the ones who struggled for 10 years, and the ones who were judged by your elitist standards

Congratulationsto Dr. Parchaso and to all the new MDs!

Sana baon natin ton humility na to sa residency, especially sa mga papasok sa toxic hospitals. Character is built in the struggle, not in the "well-bred" rants on Reddit.

So, the "Crochet Queen" has moved from her private tribe to r/medschoolph to "educate" us on etiquette. It’s fascinating how a critique of a business model is being treated as a personal "etiquette test."

Since we’re talking about "cleaning houses," let’s air out the toxic fumes in yours.

If you’re so focused on keeping your "house" clean, then why are you standing in the middle of r/medschoolph like a palengkera, screaming at students about their "upbringing"?

Bringing parents into this? Really? "I’m sure your parents wanted that for you" is the peak of condescension.

It’s classic elitism: when you can’t defend your outdated, 12-hour lecture system, you attack the "upbringing" of the students who criticize it.

Guess what? Being "well-bred" doesn’t mean staying silent while a business sells you burnout and calls it "fortitude."

PATHETIC AT ITS FINEST. Imagine being so out of touch that you attack a student’s upbringing because they critiqued your business. Bringing up our parents and saying "keep trying" to be well-bred is the height of condescension. We are doctors, not your household staff. Our parents raised us to have integrity, which includes calling out a toxic system when we see one.

Denying you had a monopoly is like a giant pretending it’s a dwarf. For years, your cult energy was the only narrative allowed. Now that students are finding efficiency and success elsewhere (looking at you, EMD), the "peaceful co-existence" is suddenly "broken." It wasn't a "code of ethics" that kept things quiet. It was a monopoly that didn't like being questioned.

"Stolen" Notes Hypocrisy FEELINGERA!

Complaining about students sharing notes "without permission" is hilarious when those same notes are largely summarized, re-formatted versions of Harrison’s, Nelson’s, and Robbins. Unless you have written permission from Elsevier and McGraw-Hill, maybe sit out the "intellectual property" argument.

You claim to "help students save themselves," but the moment they choose a different "lifeboat" (like EMD or self-study), you label them "ill-bred." You aren't a savior; you're a business owner who can't handle a bad Yelp review.

While students are stressing over the most important exam of their lives and questioning the efficiency of their review, you’re busy making plushies and "well-bred" rants. If you’d rather be a "crafter" than a medical educator who can handle feedback, then please stay in the crochet circle.

If your program is as "excellent" as you claim, you wouldn't need to spend three paragraphs insulting our parents' upbringing to prove it.

The tea is served, the monopoly is dead, and the "well-bred" mask has officially slipped. 😉

https://www.reddit.com/r/medschoolph/s/zQslDCyX5j

Ive been seeing a lot of tea lately regarding the review centers, and honestly, the desperation is starting to show.

We’ve gone from "if you don't watch our videos, you'll fail" to "if you criticize us, you're not well-bred." WOW

It’s funny how the narrative shifts when the MONOPOLY STARTS TO CRUMBLE 😇

"Well-Bred" Insult

Apparently, if you criticize a review center for being toxic or inefficient, you’re just "ill-bred." Sorry if we don't have time to be "refined" while we’re drowning in 12-hour video lectures of someone reading a handout. We’re here to become doctors, not to pass your etiquette test.

"I'd rather crochet"

Then please, go back to crocheting. If hearing the "what ifs" and "could be betters" of your own students annoys you that much, maybe you’ve lost touch with the actual struggle. Students are paying thousands for a service, not a favor. Calling student feedback "bashing without reason" is a huge red flag that you’re ALLERGIC TO ACCOUNTABILITY

"Horse to Water" Blame Game

They love saying, "we lead the horse to the lake, but we can't make it drink." But what if the horse realized there’s a CLEANER, MORE EFFICIENT STREAM (high-yield/active learning) nearby? Why force yourself to drink from a stagnant lake of 12-hour lectures just because someone told you it’s the "only" way? 🤡

Fear-Based Monopoly 🤡

"ANYONE WHO TELLS YOU THAT YOU CAN STILL RELAX IS LYING."

LMAO this is the core of their business model haha Instilling fear. They want you to believe that if you aren't miserable and sleep-deprived, you aren't studying right. Many of us passed with high ratings because we prioritized efficiency over sitting in front of a screen for 10 hours

"I'm the only one talking" Savior Complex?

She says she came back because "if only one person speaks, you might believe them."

Guess what? We believe our own eyes and our own results. We don't need a "well-bred" spokesperson to tell us how to feel about our own board experience.

If your "intentions are so good” you should BE ABLE TO HANDLE CRITISISMS without calling everyone "ill-bred."

The era of "follow us or fail" is over girl!

Students are waking up to the fact that they are the ones doing the work. Not the people holding the crochet needles 🙄

Stay vigilant, docs. Don't let the "well-bred" gatekeepers make you doubt your own study style.