Could my cousin come to the UK? How do I help?
Hiya, I live in the UK on an Ancestry visa (maternal grandmother born in Wiltshire, and mother is a British citizen) and will become a resident next year. I live in Wales with my partner, who is a Welsh native.
I have grown very concerned for my cousin in Australia. She was adopted from Korea in 1989 and is 37, with young children. She has no support network in Australia, as her adoptive mother (my aunt) disowned her due to her poor mental health and their complicated and abusive relationship (my cousin was not adopted for the right reasons).
My cousine hired a PI a few years ago to find her birth mother in Korea, but discovered her mother was already deceased (It is believed that her mother was forced to give her up, as she was a single woman in her late 30s when she gave birth). As such, she has no family except her kids.. she has no real support, and she has been cut off by everyone else as being 'beyond help' or 'too much work'.
I wish I could help her, and I miss her terribly (not having any of my family here in the UK). Should I start a GoFundMe for her to start her life again here in Wales with the kids? One of the kids has a father from Dublin, so he could potentially also have a relationship with him that he doesn't have rn (the father couldn't stay in Australia).
I could help her with Ancestry Visa paper work, but as my aunt has her birth certificate and adoption papers and has refused to give them to my cousin, she would essentially be trapped. my cousin is a genuinely lovely person, and my heart breaks for her that she still is not living a happy life that she deserves. I worry she will never have that.