Boomer Dad: Boundaries schmounderies
My boomer dad is a chronic boundary crosser. Ever since I and my siblings were little, he'd take our snacks or CDs or toys and give it to other kids unprompted and without any permission. His partner (my other parent) is extremely sick and tired of it.
And if you ever dare to say "don't touch my stuff," or "that belongs to me" he'll go on this raging tirade on how, well HE doesn't do that and well HE shares his stuff and blah blah blah blah blah.
It's infuriating at this point, and it's literally common knowledge to hide stuff you don't want him to see. A few summers ago, he almost physically assaulted me because he ate a snack I'd been saving for days for the weekend after a long, tiring week at work, and I was so mad I let him have it. He STILL hasn't learnt anything, and at this point, I'm just numb watching him.
It's honestly disgusting and narcissistic, if I'm not overreaching in psychology-speak. I dunno. I just wanted to vent because he drank out of my sister's bottle and refuses to hear about a little something called HYGIENE. Tf.