Guys what should be my approach to tackle these thoughts
Hi Guys, Just want to share with you guys I'm feeling after meeting with my school friends after a long time. The things that they are talking all about girls, getting laid and doing all the stuff with them in their prime (After school), I'm currently a 25 year old Virgin boy, who never had a gf faced rejection in my 12th standard. They made me feel that I had missed a lot in my prime. I had not been in their contact after 12th, got into clg and then boom it had been 9months into the college and corona hit and then complete isolation, then clg got over, cut from the clg people, tried for govt exams 2 years straight from home, complete isolation from society and then failed there. Then switched to private sector after 2 and a half year gap with low self esteem and social confidence. I was a skinny guy of 55kgs back in 2023, then started lifting and then currently 75, although still skinny, as being a 6ft tall. They are making fun of me for being a virgin and never had any sax sax stuff with any girl. Feeling demotivated and disheartened that I had never been able to do that stuff and social confidence is shattered. Encouraging me to do the stuff paid, but it's against my morals. I won't do anything like this. Encouraging me to be harami and do these things. I think that to do this all of this stuff, I have crossed my age. School. College are the places that we met girls. I think it will be difficult for me to get girls now. I'm still hopeful that one day I'll find a girl who likes me for who I'm, not who I will pretend to achieve them. If not then only arrange marriage is the option which will eventually happen 5-6 years from now.
What should I do to tackle these thoughts?