I really need some advice on this…
For starters thanks for clicking on this post, it really means a lot. I am a 16 year old christian(guy) and I really messed up… I have a girlfriend for about half a year now. I’ve known this girl for the past 4 years of my life and we have been best friends since. We love each other(even if this sounds cliché at 16), and we have had sexual intercourse together, more than once… I lied to myself thinking it was ok because we are in love and we want to get married when we go to college and stuff like that. I always prayed to God that if it was a sin to help me stop it and to show me that He does not want me to do that and not to anyone’s surprise He showed me that it was wrong but I pretty much ignored the signs… Now, I know that I did wrong and I have repented of my wrongdoing but I have yet to tell my gf that I want to stop and that we have sinned and need to also repent together. He haven’t done anything since I repented but that’s because I did not repent to long ago. I don’t really know what to do from now on… I repented but still feel heavy and I don’t know what to do with my relationship. Should we carry on without sex? Should we break up because we did wrong? I really don’t know… (We have had a conversation with my gf about this “issue“ earlier and she told me that she does not have any problems about us not doing sex, so do I) + thanks to anyone who read through the entire thing, it was long to say the least 😅