I cant think of a bc method my gf would be open to
For context, we're both in strong agreement of having kids maybe 5 years in the future. Her opposition comes from a firm belief that bc harms her fertility
She doesn't like pills because of the hormonal side effects and the effects of coming off bc; she isn't open to IVF; I also offered to get a vasectomy but she's against it because she thinks it may damage my fertility years down the road
What other options do we have?
I'll be honest: im larger than usual, so condoms do feel suffocating, and she doesn't like how the material feels. We both have strong breeding kinks, which is why we tried bc measures before. But idk what else to try