My son was up all night and is now regretting his decision (he accepted our in state school (hometown, even) at the 11th hour because he said he made it out of fear— he was accepted to a great (and more expensive school) OOS but was scared to leave home and worried about the money and now regrets his decision.
We spent countless weeks and hours leading up to May 1 and all the pros and cons, visits, etc, to make a choice. He waffled between the two the last two days. He said he’s really sad. I know some of this is natural after a big decision, but does anyone have advice? He worked a double shift today with no sleep so didn’t see him and just came home and I found out by digging a little that he is feeling sick to his stomach and tormented with regret. In the meantime I told him to get some rest and it’s natural to second guess big decisions and it will be ok and this is not a life sentence (I said a lot of things so this sounds blasé but won’t bore you with them all) and to get some sleep. And we’d revisit it tomorrow.
I have no idea if we contact the OOS school (email tomorrow since it’s Sunday, then call Monday) if they just say tough luck — or if it’s worth a try. Has anyone done this? Or what next steps are. I know it’s hard without knowing him and all the background. He applied to 8 schools and had it down to this school and the one basically in our backyard, but he’s a great kid. I think he is regretting the road less traveled vs the familiar and comfortable choice he defaulted to. I keep telling him there is plenty of room for newness and growth at either place. Mostly trying to gather info and maybe just commiserate before the light of day. And see if there are any options from your experience. Thanks.