m37 nt with a f34 dx not medicated anymore AuDHD partner in recovery.
How common in your relationships, present, or past even, is never quite cleaning up the mess? From literal to emotional. From never making amends or heartfelt apologies. Zero true accountability.
The overlap between covert narcissism and all her stuff is a lot to bear.
Maybe the former adhd thread can relate more. But it's a theme in my current relationship and I just don't know what to do often times.
So many messes. I can either clean them up, or make a new one by asking they get cleaned and then dealing with that fallout of almost certain disappointment at not having it happen.
I'm a pretty deeply spiritual person. And this theme really leaves me feeling lost and disconnected from the love I feel in my body. And then I fawn to not make the mess bigger and feel even more of the impact.