u/Green-Run1957

I have a 14 month old and am due to have another baby in December. I’ve heard that’s the worst month to have a baby in terms of isolation, bugs, etc. and worried my other child will have a rubbish Christmas because we will be tired and she will be adjusting to the new baby.
I am not really sure if I want to have the baby and I’m feeling quite low about it instead of excited like last going but I am already 8 weeks and don’t really want to consider getting rid of it. Does anyone have any suggestions or tips on how to feel more positively about things? Or has anyone been in this situation and felt negatively at the start and then felt better as it went on?

I have a 14 month old and am due to have another baby in December. I’ve heard that’s the worst month to have a baby in terms of isolation, bugs, etc. and worried my other child will have a rubbish Christmas because we will be tired and she will be adjusting to the new baby.
I am not really sure if I want to have the baby and I’m feeling quite low about it instead of excited like last going but I am already 8 weeks and don’t really want to consider getting rid of it. Does anyone have any suggestions or tips on how to feel more positively about things? Or has anyone been in this situation and felt negatively at the start and then felt better as it went on?