u/Greedy_Earth_765

Saben si el puente del palacio qué conecta al GNP, se puede utilizar aunque haya concierto en el palacio?

Creen que es mejor salir por la puerta 6?

I think this is the right place to ask this: why is it such a big deal for some people the way the IC helped Nesta?

One of the main arguments I keep seeing is that it was “unfair” or hypocritical on Feyre’s part, but to me, that comparison doesn’t really make sense. Their situations weren’t the same. Feyre’s issue with being trapped comes from what happened UTM, being confined in a closed space gave her PTSD. From what we know, Nesta’s trauma manifests differently: she struggles with things like bathing, being underwater, and even the sound of fire crackling. As far as I recall, there’s no clear indication that being confined in a house is a trigger for her in the same way.

Another big point people bring up is consent, that Nesta didn’t choose to go to the HoW. And while I understand why that makes people uncomfortable, I still think the intervention was necessary and ultimately the right decision. In my country, for example, addictions are often handled without the person’s consent, family members can decide to send someone to rehab.

The first chapters of ACOSF make it very clear that Nesta wasn’t in a healthy state of mind. She was dealing with intense trauma and coping by shutting everyone out and self-destructing through drinking and sex. Even if it wasn’t officially labeled a “severe addiction,” it was clearly heading in that direction. Based on how much money she was spending, it’s reasonable to assume she was consuming a lot.

Feyre gave Nesta time after the war, but eventually, doing nothing would have meant letting her continue down that path. So she, along with the IC, decided to intervene.

Sending her to the HoW wasn’t meant as a punishment, but as a controlled environment where she couldn’t keep engaging in those harmful behaviors. It removed her access to alcohol and the setting itself (like the stairs) created distance from those habits.

I’ve also seen people criticize Elain for siding with Feyre, but that doesn’t seem fair either. Elain herself said that Nesta kept pushing her away and refusing help. At some point, what else is she supposed to do? Of course she’s going to support an intervention if she believes it might actually help her sister.

So I guess what I don’t understand is why some people ignore all of that context and reduce it to “the IC was cruel” or “they trapped her.” For me, their approach made sense. Nesta didn’t seem like she was going to heal on her own, and it felt like she needed some kind of wake-up call.

What are your thoughts?