u/Greedy_Aerie349

I’m an 18m fit and recently started my first relationship. I find her really attractive and we both have a high sex drive. Since I started having sex with her I would have trouble staying hard during sex. I would get hard from receiving oral and I feel myself becoming hard from kissing and foreplay. When I do get an erection it is never close to fully erect. I think the main reason why this is happening is because I’m thinking too much about staying hard and right before sex I think to myself “I hope I get hard”. Just looking for some tips to maybe reduce the overthinking and just focus on the pleasure. I get hard when I masturbate and I also wake up in the morning with erections frequently. I also have trouble finishing from oral sex.