u/Greedy-Position8461

Unfortunately, we are all in the same boat having to deal with petty human beings who have chosen to make our lives hell. My question is how do you get yourself ready for the day knowing those menaces are out there - plotting their next move. Since my neighbors - a Karen and Kevin- act as my personal paparazzi, I have learned to avoid eye contact and to be prepared in case they decide to jump in front of my moving car. Or maybe that particular day they will just stand out there taking pictures and videos of random things and of my visitors. So when I see them, especially the man, I try to make myself feel better by thinking:

1. He is a worthless piece of shit who harasses people
2. He is so pathetic that he thinks people in the neighborhood like him, when other neighbor ignore him while he stares at them waiting for them to acknowledge him
3. He is so stupid to think that anyone cares about him, not even his kids visit him or his wife
4. He is so disgusting because he is so ugly and loves to stare at people
5. He is so creepy because he always makes it a point to come out when my son’s girlfriend comes to visit- she is a teenager and uncomfortable by the way he seems to be obsessed with her- his fucking wife does not find that concerning
6. He would talk to the other neighbors’ little daughter and then they erected a fence and now he can’t talk to her. Why would a nine year old girl want to speak with a creepy 60 year old???
7. How can anyone want to be around such a horrible person? I feel bad for people who work with him.
8. He is so incredibly petty that he will grab anyone he can talk to and complain about us- anyone like a delivery man or a plumber just working in the neighborhood
9. He used to brag about how much his grandchildren and kids love him- we have yet to see anyone visit him
10. He lied to the police and filed a false complaint just to get attention
11. His wife is also a piece of work- she never questions him- she could witness him harm someone and she would still stand with him

What do you do to remind you that people like that don’t deserve your time?

Thanks