My wife told me something that I can’t stop thinking about, what should I do?
Recently (about a week and a half ago) my wife had talked to a common friend of ours and they went very in depth about their sexual fantasies since they were alone and talked for about 7 hours straight while I was at work and when I got home my wife ended up telling me about it. Turns out a couple of these fantasies i have very similar thoughts on as our common friend and I literally can’t stop thinking about all three of them. I won’t say what they are but my wife doesn’t share these same thoughts as we have talked through all of them before (which is fine with me since I honestly don’t care if they happen or not) but the thought of doing these things got stuck in my head and now I’m having sexual dreams of our friend and i doing theses things. Is this normal? Of course I would never act upon these dreams or thoughts as I do love my wife and I would never cheat on her, but it feels wrong to be thinking of these things.