I have an almost 3 year old boy and 1 year old girl.
I am struggling with what to do when he is pushing his sister down or being too rough with her.
I get extremely frustrated at nap time (we all nap together) at the same time. My toddler hits me hard in the back rolls on us hits his head on my back very hard.
there is a few times when I have lost my cool and lose it on him and yell and scared the baby I have hurt him being too rough when I am past my breaking point. I need help I have started therapy but haven’t talked about this yet.
I don’t want to hurt my toddler. Please no judgement I am a wonderful mother but find my own mother keeps coming through me. I don’t even remember how my mom was with us but when this happens I know it was similar my sister said she is also struggling with the same thing and we don’t know what to do.
I feel sad like I lost my sweet innocent baby when his sister was born and I am aware he needs more attention it’s difficult with a one year old who needs a lot.
please any advice. I want to help our relationship and days get better. I really want to be a safe person for him and find myself failing in this hard time.