u/Good-Freedom-4698

How do I manage grief, a new job, and board exam review all at once?

Idk what flare to add but please bare with me.

My uncle just recently passed away and nahihirapan talaga akong magfocus ngayon kasi emotionally drained ako.

For context, I am working while reviewing for my board exam, and I am still new at my work in a government plantilla position so nahihirapan pa rin ako magadjust. Wala pa akong 1 month sa trabaho ko. Everything feels like I am still learning my footing there, then biglang sabay pa itong nangyari.

Hindi rin ako makapagaral properly lately kasi most of my time napupunta sa pagtulong sa mga pinsan ko, pag-asikaso ng mga bisita, at pagpapalit sa pagbabantay sa wake.

Also, six hours pa kami from them kaya mapagdesisyon namin ng parents ko to rent a room for a few days para lang makalapit at makasama sila. Wala nang space sa bahay nila kaya magrrent nalang kami. Parang everything is piling up at once. Gusto ko pa rin mag-keep up sa work, review, at responsibilities, pero honestly I feel overwhelmed and stretched thin.

How do you get through something like this? Paano ba maisingit ang pag-aaral sa situation na ganito? Please be kind with your responses.

Salamat

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u/Good-Freedom-4698 — 6 days ago

My uncle just passed away, and I have been struggling to focus because I feel emotionally drained. For context, I am working while reviewing for my licensure exam. I have not been able to study properly lately because I am helping my cousins attend to the guests and take turns watching over the wake.

We are four hours away from them, so my parents and I had to rent a room for a few days to stay close.

Everything feels like it is piling up at once. I am trying to keep up, but I feel overwhelmed and stretched thin. How do you get through something like this? How do I study effectively in a situation like mine?

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u/Good-Freedom-4698 — 6 days ago