u/Goobiaan

Hi all👋 Sorry we’re all here.

Last week my husband and I got the diagnosis that our baby has bilateral renal agenesis. We had TFMR back in 2020 due to the same diagnosis.

I haven’t met anyone who has gone through this specific diagnosis more than once, except for myself & my immediate family. If anyone has any similar experiences with this diagnosis, I’d like if you could share.

I don’t recall much of our first TMFR, and would like to be prepared physically and mentally for when we go through it again.

I’d like to know what other people’s experience with D&E/L&D was like. Was there anything that made the transition a little easier for you? How much time did you take off of work (if you work)? Has anyone else had to TMFR multiple times?