Girls before I begin; F(31). I’ve been on dating apps on and off for 4 years now. No date just ends things when they lose interest. Like zero closure. First it was ghosting and recently it’s friendzone. But this could be a me only problem. But talk to me; after an amazing first date and knowing we are aligned what are we looking for, they still friendzone me.
Fair enough, you didn’t find me attractive or compatible enough for a life partner. Good for not giving false hope. But why stick around? Just say no. I’ll cry for one maybe two days but I’ll never wonder.
Friend zone is cruel. All my life I never friend zoned anyone. Give clarity. Not give hope. Not put someone on the back burner or even maybe. Not even if we’re single in our 30-40 thing.
But men just give uncertainty and that makes me feel like a crazy person. I’m not crazy by myself.